homedesigning:

(via Space Saving Beds & Bedrooms)

Lol! I love space saving beds! When I was younger I used to Google space saving beds. like the ones that fold up into the wall and turn into desks. Because we grew up sharing small rooms in my family so space saving beds were so appealing to me.

homedesigning:

(via Space Saving Beds & Bedrooms)

Lol! I love space saving beds!
When I was younger I used to Google space saving beds. like the ones that fold up into the wall and turn into desks. Because we grew up sharing small rooms in my family so space saving beds were so appealing to me.

(via ofpeachesandpears)

@1 day ago with 992 notes

"But remember, there are two ways to dehumanize someone: by dismissing them, and by idolizing them."

David Wong  (via boneshard)

This is very important.

My sister and i were talking about this.

There are obvious reasons why it’s dehumanizing to dismiss someone. But one of the neglected things is in close circles of family and friends.

One of the things I constantly remind myself, my family and my friends is something I once heard a poet/songwriter say and i carried it through out my life. He said, “sometimes we forget or family members are human.” It really struck me because of we remind ourselves other people are human it could help us deal with internal and external conflict much easier. Many times we dismiss our siblings and/or parents feelings and emotions because we forget they have them too. What’s really important to remember is because they are human they forget we are too. And so sometimes we have to gently remind them and ourselves we are human.

The second part is also neglected and can be round in our family lives and especially in our celebrity culture.

One of the many reasons why the second part is important is because by idolizing someone we take away that persons ability to be human and make mistakes.

What’s even more profound about this is applying these to ourselves. To make sure we don’t dehumanize ourselves. I understand the self-motivation culture but it can be overdone. Over confidence is a thing. if we’re dismissing or idolizing ourselves we don’t allow for mistakes or acknowledgement of our mistakes and thoughts. There should be a balance. Allow yourself room for mistakes. Acknowledge your thoughts, feelings, emotions, and humanity. Acknowledge your mistakes and humanity.

Be confident in yourself but have humility.

A scholar told me struggling between the two means your heart is in the right place because that means you’re trying to balance them.

(Source: gassions, via ofpeachesandpears)

@2 days ago with 145649 notes
#profound quote 
hailfromthestars:

Stay positive.Check out this fitness motivation blog.

HAHAHAHA! this is funny because it means I’m not gonna have many people left to talk to.

hailfromthestars:

Stay positive.

Check out this fitness motivation blog.

HAHAHAHA! this is funny because it means I’m not gonna have many people left to talk to.

(via qybtamaraho)

@2 days ago with 4186 notes

Now that i got a smart phone I can track my runs. i hate carrying my phone on runs so i tried to make an armband out of duck tape to save money. I really don’t need my phone to run either I was always fine running without it before. I basically convinced myself I need this.

Okay i essentially did this to procrastinate on going for a run.

It pretty much works but I ended up not even using it…

@3 days ago with 2 notes
#frugal #running hack #procrastination 

Yo so whats the rules on answering messages publicly vs privately?

Not just the rules but the tech-etiquette. Like the proper thing to do.

I don’t get messages often to know these things and when I do get messages I never know which is the right one to do.

What if the person wants me to answer private and I want to answer public and vicey-versy(<Tigger reference)? How does one know?

@4 days ago with 3 notes
#tumblr #messages 

hopelessflightrisk asked: So, this whole Adam thing just took me by complete surprise. Mart-ini sent me a message today saying that he was Adam's brother and that Adam was alive, explaining the whole impersonation thing on his own blog. He said his (Yousef's) instagram is yonuaimi and Adam's instagram is adamaln3aimi. I requested to follow Adam's account and he accepted today and his last post was on yesterday and his account dates back to 2012. So it does seem like Adam is alive and monarchyofaneurysms was fake :/

Yo that really sucks that people would impersonate a real person, connect with others in specific detail using this person and then lead others to believe he died…that’s really messed up…

Oh wow people who do personal blogs and connect with others should probably all start doing “proof” videos or pictures, like in the reddit AMA’s. 

Speaking of Scrubs (from my last message to you), The real Adam should do a video saying he’s not dead like what Zach Braff did when people started the rumor that he died…

@4 days ago

Anonymous asked: Monarchyofaneurysms is not the Adam you're thinking of. He's still alive but someone was pretending to be him.

So is this the same anon as the last one. Is this for sure now? Was I talking to a random person?

@4 days ago with 1 note

kvtes:

vulnerability makes depth possible.

Nice. Simple and eloquent. This is one of the reasons is why honesty of self and honesty through expression is so important yet so difficult.

(via rasouli)

@5 days ago with 345 notes
#wow #profound #wisdom 
zeecookie:

Get Home - Bastille

zeecookie:

Get Home - Bastille

@2 days ago with 2 notes
#my sister made this #with her own photography #bastille #get home 
Busses in my city have some nice local poetry and art on them.

Busses in my city have some nice local poetry and art on them.

@2 days ago
#despite the criticisms i have of the care the city for those of us who ride buses and the bus system itself #the poetry and at is pretty nice #it was raining 
@3 days ago

hopelessflightrisk asked: LMFAOO yeah, I am real. :P (IG: iref3, twitter: irefai) Man this whole thing has us doubting our whole tumblr existence. And Yes! Mockingjay (and the whole Hunger Games series) is amazing! I couldn't put it down. TFIOS was an emotional roller coaster ahahaha! Laughing one page and then seriously depressed the next. It was so good! I actually started reading Divergent but then midterms and assignments took over my life, I'll start reading it again as soon as exams are done.

LOL. Good. Just checking. Tumblr virtual-existential crisis mode.

Yeah the hg series is awesome and super intense. I loved the social issues allegories in it too. Suzanne Collins really didn’t shy from the intense reality of revolutions. Also I really loved her diversity in characters and their development. I really got into the TFIOS too the writing and characters are great in that, I never thought I’d like that kind of story like that. John Green can write. Same thing happened to me when I started reading Divergent, but I hate assigned reading so I like to read in rebellion. I like that. I’m gonna quote myself on that.

@4 days ago

Anonymous asked: the real adam and his brother both have active instagram accounts so you can check them out if you care at all and want to know what happened for sure. they are yonuaimi and adamaln3aimi on Instagram and cocainesquirrel on twitter. Also the real Adams full name is adam Al nuaimi and you can find him on Facebook too

Thanks. True or false, I’m not gonna waste too much time with this anymore. As morbid as it sounds I did get a small reminder of the reality of death and the temporary state of the worldly life from this situation and, alhamdulilah, I’m just glad no one is actually dead. And that no one I know had to die for me to be reminded of this.

Also, to correct myself from an earlier post: nothing is particularly wrong with tumblr or the internet in general. The sickening problem is with some of the people on here and how they use it. Whether it’s the trolls, the keyboard warriors, the con artists, the impersonators, the critics, and the haters…all these are people misusing a tool. I understand many people like to joke around, I love joking around and what not, but there is truth in jest and so the people who joke around or mess aroudn in a way that harm others because to them it’s fun or funny and they feel safe behind a computer shows the state of their character and their hearts, empty, diseased, and sick.

But I’m sure most of the rest of us on here are cool (and real) for the most part…

@4 days ago

Anonymous asked: Did monarchyofaneurysms have a brother that he talked about? If so, what's the blog?

I don’t remember him mentioning a brother or another blog.

I mean monarchyofaneurysms did talk to me in Arabic. He told me about how he wants to go into the field of study to find the cure for the heart condition he had. How and why would someone fake that effort and those details to a random stranger.

@4 days ago

Anonymous asked: we need someone to do some detective work on moonarchyofanuerysms. His brothers blog URL is mart-ini and he's saying that Adams blog was created by an impersonator for a year and was not adam. so Adams not really dead. someone needs to get to the bottom of this

Man that makes me really mad.

It sucks whether it’s true hes been “catfished” or not.

If it’s true thats messed up that someone impersonated someone else and faked their dath. If it’s false, it’s messed up that we have to doubt a real humans death and doubt our interactions with them. it’s a lose-lose situation to me. This website and the internet is messed up.

@4 days ago